“Hey,you’re pretty cute. Do you give out your phone number?” he asked. “No, I have a girlfriend,” I replied flatly, hoping he would leave me alone. “Oh, you’re a lesbian? That’s cool. I couldn’t even tell. You don’t look like a lesbian”. End of conversation. There are so many things that I wanted to say in reply to this well-intentioned, though obviously misinformed person. My … Continue reading You don’t look like a lesbian